To
find out just how acne makes his patients feel, one dermatologist asked his
patients. This is what they told him.
In
their Own Words
I
feel like a vampire. . ."I don't look in mirrors.... I am like a
vampire--I shy away from mirrors. I comb my hair using my silhouette on the wall
to show the outline of my head. I have not looked myself in the eyes in years.
It’s painful not to be able to do that, and that is a direct result of acne, the
acne scarring."
I
feel so insecure . . ."I think that if I had more self-esteem about the
way I looked, I think I would have been more outgoing. I would have gone to more
parties. I probably would have been more outspoken in class and would not have
felt so insecure about going up and speaking in front of a group of
classmates."
I
feel humiliated . . ."It is really humiliating to feel like I have no
control over my acne. I hold my head down, and I am ashamed to look at people; I
feel so embarrassed. I am 25 years old and to be acting this way is very
frustrating."
I
hate that the first thing people see is my bad skin . . . "It's
associated with being dirty, and I hate that, because it's not at all like that.
I inherited it from my mother, and she's always telling me that she had the
exact same thing and that it will go away. I am mad that I inherited it from
her. My dad makes me feel bad because he never had bad skin when he was younger,
so he doesn't understand.... I hate that the first thing people see when they
look at me is bad skin. I really. really hate that."
Not
a day goes by that I don’t think about it . . . "I feel like I don't
look right no matter how hard I try to dress up and look nice—there is always
that area of pimples there, and it is very unsettling. There really hasn't been
a day gone by that I don't think about it, or look at my face.... Should I spend
that much energy on it? I could be doing other things...instead of wasting 5 to
10 minutes every day looking at my face in the mirror, or playing with it,
picking at my acne."
What this Dermatologist Tells His Patients
Clearing up the
acne can relieve the source of these disturbances, but many people don't realize
that something can be done.
Many
myths about acne, especially regarding diet and hygiene, are still considered
true. And many parents and older siblings are stuck in the attitude of past
generations that nothing can really be done but wait it out. That’s just not
true.
Making
matters worse, there is confusion among people with acne and their families
about what works and what doesn't. They are often frustrated by products that
promise to clear skin but that don't work for them.
Some
non-prescription products may be more effective than others, but dermatologists
have treatments that work just about 100% of the time. Most cases of acne can be
cleared up with the right treatment.
*Patient testimonials courtesy of John Koo, MD. Dr. Koo is a
dermatologist who practices in San Francisco.